How to Be a More Dominant Man, Part I– Mastering Your Mindset

A cold wind blew very quickly through my bathroom window.

Cold water rained down on my chest and I shivered and hacked and pissed down the drain, all I could think about was how a towel fresh and warm from the dryer would feel.

Feeling the weakness that was currently overtaking my body…

I shifted my mindset and immediately began to engage in state-changing self talk:

You are done when I say we are done.

If you are wondering what a story about a contrast shower has to do with… dominating other men and women, then GOOD.

You’re likely confused because your thinking about domination – like mine was until recently – is 100% backwards.

We all think about domination from the completely totally wrong direction.

We think about dominating others when we should FIRST… be thinking about correctly dominating ourselves. 

How can YOU dominate others… when you CAN’T exercise the force of will… needed to FIRST correctly dominate yourself?

Think about domination from the inside-out rather than the outside-in by taking on a VERY common complaint.

“These American women are just so gosh darn awful. I can’t keep them from mistreating me!”

Do you know who is MUCH worse than the MOST selfish entitled woman?

You!

Who gives you more drama on ANY given day – some random girl OR the entitled princess of your BODY?

• I don’t want to wake up early everyday or get out of bed. Let’s instead cuddle with the blanky.
• I don’t want to edit my blog posts.
• I will NOT change my state. My emotions rule me. I want to BLINDLY RAGE AND SCREAM!!!
• I want to smoke some marijuana weed and get fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuucccccked up.
• I just want to watch some internet porn all night long.
• I want to just visit the bar and drink alcohol all day long.
• High Intensity Training REALLY burns. Quickly stop the set!

Want, don’t want, whine, bitch, piss, and then immediately moan.

We are a bunch of six-year old’s trapped in older men’s bodies.

Most of the time, we give in to these very transient feelings.

We MOST of the time, simply lack the resolve to say:

No. We are done when I say we are done.

Does your girl mistreat YOU, because she is the Big Bad Wolf or because your weakness reverberates all throughout your soul? 

Do your co-workers walk all over you because they are flat out evil or because they can JUST sense that you are REALLY actually weak?

Are they the problem OR are you the REAL true actual problem?

People can only get away with what you let them get away with.

Why should people respect or treat you as ANYTHING other than… a weakling and a very DUMB push over when your EVERY action indicates that that’s EXACTLY what you REALLY are?

Are you being mistreated or treated EXACTLY like you deserve to be treated?

An alpha male learns how to dominate his body BEFORE he worries about what EVERYONE else is currently doing. 

He builds discipline.

Once you can FIRST dominate yourself, dominating OTHERS comes far MUCH more naturally.

You get used to dealing with the MOST pathetic, needy, nasty (and beautiful, godlike, and blessed) invention ever created – YOUR human body.

As you dominate yourself, something VERY cool, immediately starts to happen. 

You develop an immediate sense of quietude – an Alpha Zen attitude towards LIFE.

This vibe or aura begins to radiate from your soul.

You become downright unshakeable.

Blind rage turns into focused anger… that eventually turns into an intensity that absolutely burns and destroys all who would ever dare to challenge you.

Others simply learn, NOT to mess with YOU… unless they are hiding behind a keyboard.

You are unshakeable, because how EXACTLY can the outside world… shake your mind… when that pathetic weak body of yours remains pressed firmly underneath your VERY TIGHT iron grip?

Do NOT ever learn how to master others… until you have FIRST learned… how to master yourself.

And that all begins with correctly learning… how to master your mindset.

Until next time.

Your man,

-Elijah “The Realist”