Become Obsessed to the Point of Madness

Do you want to know the SECRET to giving up all of your negative bad habits?

Do you know WHY you have a whole bunch of bad habits in the first place?

I will tell you why, and my answer isn’t the one self-help gurus will give to you.

There is a sad secret that you won’t ever admit to yourself.

You have vices because you are currently aimless.

Your life currently has NO purpose.

You are simply existing.

You are riding whatever wave life throws at you instead of making your own waves.

I have a clear cut permanent solution.

It is a solution that every loser and hater will tell you is 100% wrong.

Become obsessed.

Obsession is Not a Bad Word.

Losers will tell you that obsession is a bad thing.

You should have balance.

That is why they are losers.

Consider the “average man“.

(“Will wife/daddy/the boss man let me play with my train set later?”)

Here is what occupies the thoughts of the “average man“:

What is my girlfriend/wife doing right now? Is she cheating on me? Why hasn’t she texted me all day?!
What’s up with the higher ups? That email my boss sent me was vague. Does he like me?
Aimlessly surf the web.
Watch internet porn and masturbate all night long
What’s for lunch?
Feel tired after eating big lunch.
Is it 5 o’clock yet?
Look for nearby micro-brew to can display superior knowledge of hops, malt, and barley to other aimless dorks.
TV time!

The average man is just trying to fill up his day with a whole bunch of distractions.

He is, as the saying goes, “just killing time.”

(There is no danger. There is no play. There is only tedium and quiet desperation.)

Become Obsessed with Excellence.

Let me tell you what happened when I became obsessed with taking Frauds & Liars to the next level.

I don’t want to get drunk.
I don’t want to watch porn.
I don’t want to bang random bar skanks. When the girls at the coffee shop couch nuzzle closer to my disgusting muscles I give them an annoyed look.

Because I am on a mission, it doesn’t take me any willpower at all to rid myself of these filthy habits.

I don’t have any magic tricks for you.

I simply don’t have time for nonsense because I am thinking of TOO MANY other things.

I do everything for Frauds & Liars and outsource absolutely NOTHING.

I write/edit every word, edit every sales letter, design the page, and handle ALL of the back-end crap.

Running a website involves a lot of back end stuff that isn’t always fun:

What is a bounce rate and how does it impact my SEO and what are the best WordPress apps to decrease it? Is Alexa legit; they don’t even know what search terms people are using to find me. Disqus? JetPack? What is an SSL and private IP and do I need one?
Write newsletter.
Post to social media.
I’m committed to helping every man who comes to Frauds & Liars but can barely keep up with reader emails.
Do I sit on this post for a few days until traffic drops or keep juicing my stats?
What happened to the day!? Time to hit the gym!

Now instead of breaking myself of bad habits that impeded my success, I am becoming a victim of my own success.

I have too many posts and too many projects in the works and I’m overwhelming my readers with original content. Let’s do a separate post linking to and annotating some posts.

When you become obsessed, you develop tunnel vision.

Nothing else matters.

You simply don’t have to “break yourself of bad habits” because those bad habits CANNOT compare to your obsession.

Find your obsession and EVERYTHING else will simply fall into place.