How to Get Over a Breakup (with Your Ex-Girlfriend!)

The period after breaking up with a girlfriend can be a lonesome time full of doubt, fear, regret and MUCH pain.

In this article, you will learn how to get over a breakup (with your ex-girlfriend) in the easiest, MOST painless way possible.

This article will NOT review how to get over a divorce…

But how to get over a breakup with a girlfriend with whom you do NOT share any children.

For purposes of this post, we will assume that the girl in the relationship initiated & broke up with the guy.

We can assume this for TWO precise reasons:

1) Most breakups are initiated by the female

and

2) A male would NOT be reading about how to get over a breakup if he were NOT the heartbroken party.

10 steps to getting over a breakup (with your ex-girlfriend!):

1) Understand that you are still in love with her simply because you CAN’T have her.

If she all of a sudden became extremely needy she would cease to be so VERY attractive.

Men are in love with women that they CANNOT have… AND women are in love with men that they CANNOT have.

If they could have them, that person would then cease to ever be as attractive.

2) There are plenty of fish in the sea.

There are over 3 billion women in the world RIGHT NOW and the median age for women world-wide is 29 years old.

That means that there are currently MILLIONS of date-able women in the world RIGHT NOW.

There are literally millions of women as good, or even BETTER, than her.

There are prettier women, there are sexier women, there are much “smarter” women, and there are much more younger women – Literally ANYTHING that YOU can think of, there are flat out millions more of.

To be obsessed with only one stupid fish in a sea of millions is flat out lunacy.

All her “great” qualities were something that YOU simply made up in your own mind.

The TRUTH is that women will change to please you in any way that YOU personally desire.

Women are chameleons in love and YOUR hobbies and interests will eventually become her hobbies and interests.

A better woman can always be found.

3) She is NOT your soulmate, your “true love”, the “one” or ANYTHING else.

She’s just a girl who you have personally dated for a while.

Soulmates and true love is a stupid invention of the movies and sold to ALL of the idiot gullible masses.

If she was your soulmate or your “true love” then YOU would STILL currently be with her and EVERYTHING would be all roses.

If such a thing as soulmates actually existed then you would have NEVER broken up with her in the first place to even begin with.

If true-love actually existed then she would still be with you… RIGHT NOW!

It isn’t true love you have, it’s true infatuation because she played you REALLY damn well.

If the girl actually was “perfect” for you, then YOU would NOT have ever broken up with her.

4) Realize that when another girl comes along, you will immediately forget all about the “old one“.

The way you get over your dog’s death is you mourn for a while and then you go to the puppy pound and pick up a BRAND NEW dog.

Similarly, the way you truly get over a woman is to simply GET another one.

5) Do NOT ever watch sappy movies or listen to poor sad music.

The media you imbibe affects your mood, positively or negatively.

Rather than consume media that makes you sad or depressed, you should consume media that uplifts you and motivates you for the future.

Don’t feed that heartbreak fire with heartbreak songs, movies and books.

6) Realize that you dodged a bullet by breaking up with your ex-girlfriend.

Since it could not last, could NEVER last, its 100% BEST that it’s over NOW instead of sometime in the future when MUCH MORE could possibly be at stake i.e. children, alimony, divorce, child support etc.

A little heartache is a whole lot BETTER than being bled dry from an unhappy ex-wife.

7) Realize that you will just be sad and lonesome for a little while and just simply accept it.

You wouldn’t be human if you had NO emotions.

So maybe you’ll spend a week listening to sad music and drinking too much whiskey.

Just don’t let it become a REAL terrible bad habit.

Get it out, get it over with and THEN very quickly move on.

8) You can learn from all of your past mistakes and then become a MUCH BETTER companion for your future women.

That doesn’t mean you should pay more attention or buy more “gifts”, you actually shouldn’t.

You should act in a similar aloof manner in which “the one” acted which caused you so much heartache and pain in the first place.

If you want your woman to be head over heels in love with you, you simply CANNOT ever be too available to her.

That doesn’t mean that you MUST be rude or mean, but it does mean that you CANNOT ever be too “nice” or too eager to ever satisfy or please her.

NEVER spill your guts and ALWAYS let her wonder about you.

Conventional wisdom says otherwise but conventional wisdom leads to divorce from “unhappy” wives who didn’t have the mystery that they once craved.

Your woman must look up to you in some way to maintain her feelings of love for you.

When you maintain that aloofness she is drawn to your power, the power she craves for YOU to have but will NEVER admit.

9) Never, ever take advice from women on how to get women.

They will lie unknowingly and tell you to be nice and “be yourself” and buy gifts, knowing full well that they despise the losers who do those such things.

Similarly, do NOT ever take advice from internet “pick up artists” hellbent on sexual degeneracy.

The absolute BEST person to take advice from is a guy who continually has pretty girlfriends who dote on him.

10) Realize that a lot of modern women will NEVER be happy with any man as long as they live.

The reality is that modern woman has been spoon-fed completely unrealistic romance movies for her whole ENTIRE life and she believes in them as MUCH as she believes in well… literally ANYTHING.

She believes that she deserves literally EVERYTHING that she sees on TV.

She will ALWAYS think that her “perfect man”, her soulmate, her white knight in shining armor is out there… sitting somewhere.

Absolutely NOTHING a man can do will ever please such women FOREVER.

These women will ALL die alone and will NEVER, ever understand where they went wrong until it’s WAY TOO damn late.

These are the women whom you CANNOT ever please no matter WHAT you actually freaking do.

If you’re “dating” such a woman, you should let her go immediately and find a MUCH MORE better companion.

Don’t ever fall for the “saving her” baloney.

She isn’t a damsel in distress and she definitely is beyond redemption.

Such cases will only end with YOU with your head in your hands wondering “why?”.

Getting over a breakup with your ex-girlfriend is downright EASY… when you THINK about it in a VERY logical way and don’t let blind emotion run you over.

The old adages are often very true: there are plenty of fish in the sea, you are better off etc.

There is definitely light at the end of your tunnel, whereas if you stayed on board with this “woman” there would only be darkness waiting for YOU.

The “right choice” has already been made for YOU, whether you want to believe it or not.

Dust yourself off and find yourself a MUCH BETTER option.

There are literally millions of more beautiful, young, pretty, hot, cute attractive “women” to choose from.

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But heed this warning: when a woman becomes obsessed with you, YOU will lose all of your desire for her.

For YOU to be truly attracted and “want her” she MUST make YOU chase her a little.

She CANNOT be “too available” at first because the chase is an important part of “falling in love”.

Bonus #11) You can use the “breakup” as fuel for a GREAT workout.

There is literally NO TIME that a man will hit the weights harder than after a “breakup”.

Especially when SHE starts “dating again“.

Instead of letting that baloney eat you up, let if fuel your fire instead.