10 Ways to Project POWER and STRENGTH (in ANY Situation!)

1) Talk LOUD and Make Sure That People Can Actually HEAR YOU

Make sure people & everyone else around can hear the EXACT WORDS that are coming out of your MOUTH.

Talk loud, talk PROUD, do NOT ever stutter and don’t EVER “umm” and “uhh” your way throughout the conversations that you have with people.

You don’t ever NEED to YELL, but what you MUST DO whenever speaking is to… PROJECT YOUR VOICE.

Make sure that EVERYONE around CAN HEAR YOU.

When you talk at someone they shouldn’t have to say “What? Huh? What did you say?“.

No one should have to GUESS what your answer is, the power is in “Yes” and “No”.

“Umm, well, you know, I think maybe…” just simply does NOT project power. I am just SO very SORRY 😉

2) Don’t dress like a gay or a nerd or a hipster

Yes, we all know gays are fabulous but they just simply are NOT very powerful.

They are sissified half men who do EVERYTHING in their power to look as fruity as possible.

When you dress like a gay you look dick-less.

Many otherwise straight boys dress gay, and that’s fine for those sissies, but for a man of power it’s unacceptable.

There is power in a well fitting suit and tie.

There is power in a well fitting t-shirt that accentuates your build.

There is NO power in skinny jeans, or man purses, or whatever other bullshit those silly-heads are wearing.

You should ALWAYS dress sharp like a Winner Wolf… every single day.

3) Build a big back

Obviously, having a muscular figure is extremely powerful.

Probably the most overlooked body-part is the back, which is a shame because the back is a huge muscle group.

You can’t see your back so often it is neglected.

That’s unfortunate, because a big, broad back screams POWER.

If you happen to stand in an elevator behind a fella with a huge back you’ll know right away that the guy is no minnie mouse.

A big back just looks powerful, more powerful than big arms or a big chest, or even big shoulders.

Hit your pull-ups, bent barbell rows and your heavy rack dead-lifts religiously.

Even though you can’t see your back, all that hard work will eventually pay off.

Anytime I happen to catch my back in a mirror (anyplace that there are mirrors in the front and back) I’m always a little SHOCKED at how well all the back work has paid off.

A big back just looks damn strong, don’t ever neglect it.

4) Don’t be self deprecating

When you make fun of yourself people lose respect for you.

Clearly, you do NOT believe in yourself so NO ONE else should believe in you either.

It is infinitely BETTER to be arrogant than it is to be humble and self-deprecating.

It takes arrogance to be highly successful and it takes arrogance to be a strong, very powerful leader.

You MUST believe in yourself and you MUST believe that YOU can do a MUCH BETTER job than ANYONE else.

People will cry about you being arrogant, but they’ll cry while they follow all the rules set by the arrogant leaders.

5) Don’t follow the rules

The rules are for the herd, the average Joe and Jane who will NEVER amount to absolutely ANYTHING.

The rules do NOT apply to the VERY powerful, simple as that.

(Note: I said rules, NOT laws).

You’ve heard a million different idiots say:

“But I did everything right!”

“I followed all the rules and I still got shit on!“.

Here’s a tip for the rule followers: Rules are designed for you to get NOTHING and give EVERYTHING.

You’ll NOT get a damn thing by following the rules, the rules are set by the powerful to keep YOU down and to keep them UP.

Whine and boo-hoo about it all you want but go fetch your daddy’s coffee while you’re doing it.

What rules did Steve Jobs, Arnold Schwarzenegger, and Mark Zuckerberg follow?

Rules are for those who wish to be ruled.

The power is in getting OTHERS to follow YOUR rules.

6) Walk with power

Walk tall and stand proud.

No hands in the pockets baloney.

Don’t drag your feet on the ground, don’t walk with your head down, don’t be a minnie mouse and try to get out of everyone’s way.

7) Never apologize

I get at least 5 guys apologizing to me every single day.

Usually it’s in the gym, I’ll be walking with my 5 lb pink dumbbells in my hands and some guy is in my way and he says “sorry”.

That happens constantly.

Never apologize for just simply being there.

Don’t start a conversation with “sorry”.

Don’t ever end a conversation with “sorry”.

Just don’t say sorry, period.

But what if you do something terribly wrong and are truly sorry?

There’s an easy fix for that, friend: Don’t ever do anything terribly wrong.

Problem solved.

8) Maintain eye contact

When you speak with someone you look them in the eyes.

Don’t look around the room or the floor or to the ceiling.

Look at the eyes, the windows of the soul.

9) Always give a firm handshake

Your handshake says EVERYTHING about you.

A firm handshake is powerful.

What is a limp wristed, loosey goosey handshake?

It is the EXACT opposite of powerful.

10) Don’t let your woman call you honey, or sugar, or dear

Guess what?

Your woman is going to call you ANYTHING that YOU tell her to.

The KEY is to tell her, NOT ask her.

The goofballs with the slouched backs and the khaki shorts let their women call them honey or sugar or, worst of all, dear.

All highly emasculating names for a MAN.

She will call you whatever you want, if you want to be called dick-less then she is going to call you dear or honey.

If you want to be called a VERY powerful name, you just tell her.

Simple as that.

Tell her EXACTLY what to SAY.

Say “Call me daddy“.

She might giggle or laugh, but NEVER give in, NEVER apologize, NEVER backtrack and she will soon call you the NEW NAME and squeal with delight each time that she does it.

The little secret here is that women want you to have power, but they will test you and test you and try and take it away, just don’t let them.

Here is another SECRET: The same things that turn men on, turn women on too.

Fella, your woman wants to feel YOUR power – let her.

There is no more powerful feeling in the world than when your woman happily calls you “daddy” or….?

Sky’s the limit.

11) BONUS – Lift weights like an animal

The only thing that truly projects strength is….

STRENGTH.

Make your body as strong as you possibly can.

And then make it even MORE stronger.

The weight room is the man maker, the ultimate, get to know it intimately.

Barbells are your #1 BEST friends but sometimes they laugh at you and need to be taught a lesson.

Conquer them and learn how to conquer all.