Guys regularly complain that American women aren’t feminine.
Yet if you want a feminine woman should you NOT first be VERY masculine?
What are some traits of masculine men and how can YOU use these masculine traits to attract women?
Proving that wisdom is often found in unusual sources, Planned Parenthood provides some decent guidelines for masculinity.
Planned Parenthood claims these masculine traits are “socially constructed,” which is just plain flat out silly.
Masculinity is a biological construct.
Nevertheless the list is quite good.
A quick review of this list shows that MOST American men are NOT prepared to handle feminine women.
Traits Commonly Associated With Masculinity
1. Independent.
Are you ALWAYS crying about politics, saying that life will be GOOD for EVERYONE if “your man” is elected?
Do you complain that the government has NOT yet done enough to boost the economy?
Then you are totally dependent upon the government for YOUR economic success.
2. Non-emotional.
Do you cry when people say things which hurt your feelings?
Have you ever reported an online message board post to a moderator because it was “mean”?
When your boss is being an ass do you become a sad little panda.
3. Aggressive. Are you afraid of approaching women?
Do you take what is YOURS or complain about there being a lack of opportunity?
Can you survive a street fight, or would you become a mere victim of the Knockout Game.
4. Tough-skinned.
Does a rhinoceros know when a gnat is on its back?
Do you stew and brew over REAL and perceived slights?
See also number 2, above.
5. Competitive.
Do you try making yourself BETTER each day?
Do you grind out extra reps in The Weight Room, look for a side hustle, and constantly improve?
6. Strong, active, and self-confident.
Do you walk like a man?
Are you in the gym and reading every single day?
Do you have the posture of an alpha male?
Or do you walk with slouching shoulders and hold your head down like a slave BEFORE going home to play Xbox 360.
Do you live by the Twin Pillars of Alpha?
7. Hard.
When life gets tough do you push through or do YOU just simply flat out quit?
Are you afraid of drinking a green juice and instead look for your milk and cookies?
Even worse, are you just so defeated and demoralized by life that you become a drunk?
8. Sexually aggressive.
Any loser can become horny.
When you see a woman do you decide that you are going to be a man and immediately make your move?
Life is about polarity.
It’s yin and yang.
Feminine Women Want Masculine Men.
Women want their EXACT opposite.
Even a self-proclaimed “strong, independent woman” wants to be tamed.
All of my feminist classmates – including aggressive lawyers – changed their last names once getting married.
America is full of MANY feminine women, as femininity is a biological construct.
Women want to submit to a man.
Or did you not notice that 50 Shades of Grey sold over 50 million copies?
Women simply WANT masculine men. Plain and simple.
There just aren’t enough masculine men to go around.
Until next time.
Your man,
-Elijah “The Realist”