I don’t know about you, but I enjoy one night stands.
The thrill of going out at night, meeting a new girl and fucking her within minutes or hours, has NOT gotten old to me.
Fresh Flesh, as I personally like to call it.
Generally, players are driven by discovery.
Discovery of a new body, how her pussy feels, what does her tits look like, is she good in bed, does she swallow; all of these discoveries are exciting and the reward for conquering a completely new girl.
A large part of it for myself, is the mental conquest of the girl.
By pulling her the same night, in the face of competition, I have proven myself to be the best with game that night, in that moment, in that whole ENTIRE venue.
While it’s important to NOT base your self-esteem on whether you pull or not, it’s fun to be good at your hobby, and that’s what all One Night Stand’s are to me;
A hobby, that I happen to be REALLY great at.
The Number One way to pull a girl for a One Night Stand is to head to a nightclub or bar.
I’m sure some of you are just flat out confused by this statement, but reality is, there is NEVER a better environment for meeting a girl, escalating and fucking her within minutes or hours, than a nightclub or bar.
Day-game is great for meeting quality women, but I think it’s simply a matter of preference.
If you have the ability to meet a girl at Starbucks and do an insta-date followed by sex, then more power to you, however, for those of you starting out in game, or those of you who are simply impatient, there is NO quicker way to build up your notch count AND develop your social IQ, than learning to pull out of a club or bar.
These are the 5 very important reasons why…
5. Current Culture
Now more than ever, we live in a culture where ‘going out’ is simply mainstream.
Almost every pop/rap song that is being blasted in 21 yo sluts cars across America, from artists (and I use this word liberally) like Katy Perry to Jay-Z, from Ke$ha to Pharell, is about ‘going out’ and ‘poppin bottles’.
The Electronic Dance Music (EDM) scene has exploded into becoming a part of our generation, much like the Beatles and the 60′s generation.
It’s NOT just music; it’s a simple way of life.
With going out being such a big part of our generation; it’s no wonder that for almost every 21 yo girl in America, the HIGHLIGHT of their week is going out to a club or bar.
It’s become acceptable for girls to simply get drunk and ‘make mistakes’ and chalk it up to that ‘crazy night in Vegas’.
I didn’t create this current culture, I’m simply the messenger.
Learn it, exploit it.
4. Sluttiest Girls Are At A Club
The hottest, sluttiest girls are in nightclubs.
I didn’t say the hottest, best relationship material types; but the hottest AND sluttiest are ALL definitely at the club.
If you want a girl who’s into fitness and that you can take home to Mom, then hit up your local Yoga studio and maybe you’ll find a girl of worth, but don’t complain if it takes 2-3 ‘dates’ to get into her panties.
If you want a steak for dinner, do you go to a cow pasture and pet a cow?
Do you feed it grain and brush its coat?
Hell no.
You go to the butcher and select a slab of meat to take home and eat.
Make life simple on yourself and cut out all of the bullshit.
Girls like to get drunk and have ‘fun’, which usually entails getting naked with a guy they met at a club.
3. Alcohol
Without a doubt alcohol lowers girls inhibitions turning them into cock-craving nymphos, throwing inhibitions, morals and pregnancy concerns out the window of the club.
Alcohol is the ‘lubricant’ for gaming girls; both on your end (if you need liquid courage) and on their end, to be comfortable getting naked so quickly with a ‘stranger’.
We all have heard a girl’s favorite excuse for having a One Night Stand, “I was drunk”.
No shit slut, now do a shot.
2. Law of Abundance
The Law of Abundance is one of two factors that I believe are the MOST important components of game.
The other is Frame.
Striking out in a club is no big deal.
Why?
Because there’s another MORE 200 girls to actually meet.
No where else can you find such an abundance of slutty girls in one place, consuming alcohol and partying.
Sure you MIGHT have to deal with a few cock-blockers, but that only tightens your game.
Does it mean that you’ll pull 100% of the time?
Hell no, but you increase your chances for a One Night Stand by putting yourself in EXACTLY the right place.
1. Girls Just Want To Have Fun
Especially when they are freshly turned 21 year old sluts.
They live for the weekend and the next ‘big’ party.
Girls simply associate nightlife with fun.
When you combine Environment + Alcohol + Sluts = Good Bang Statistics.
If I had a dollar for every time I’ve heard a girl say this phrase, I’d be retired RIGHT NOW.
This generation has YOLO’d itself into a hole of debt and stupidity, but that’s neither here nor there;
Point is, girls are living FOR the moment to such an extent, that it’s like taking candy from a child, to pull a girl out of the club for a One Night Stand, if you know what you’re actually doing.
Until next time.
Your man,
-Elijah “The Realist”
