It’s easy to focus on the rewards of learning game and becoming great with women.
To walk into a hotel bar, a nightclub or a wedding reception and odds are now greater in YOUR favor of being able to pull a sexy girl out for a night of carnal passion.
What’s usually NOT focused on in the mano-sphere, is the process that a man goes through in his quest to actually truly become great with women.
“The brick walls are there for a reason. The brick walls are not there to keep us out. The brick walls are there to give us a chance to show how badly we want something. Because the brick walls are there to stop the people who don’t want it badly enough. They’re there to stop the OTHER people.”
-Randy Pausch
I dare say gentlemen, that absolutely NOTHING is harder than becoming great with women.
Standing at the top, it’s easy for me to walk into a social setting, meet a beautiful girl and have her flat out naked within minutes or even sometimes hours.
Do I pull every single time?
Of course NOT, but if I shared my actual success rate, you would be downright shocked and perhaps perturbed at my level of success.
What you would be missing though, is the years of my life that I invested in the pursuit of finding out EXACTLY what works and most importantly… what doesn’t.
As many of the Masters of Game can attest to, we ALL invested a lot.
Yes, the rewards are great, plentiful and I wouldn’t trade my experiences for all the money in the world, however, the road to success is what was REALLY actually important.
This is not a how-to article, nor is it a Top 10 tips article; instead it’s my humble offer of encouragement to my fellow men in their quest for ultimate success with women.
Despite your ‘flaws’, shortcomings and personal lists of ‘failures’ that you may beat yourself up with on a daily basis, or perhaps do NOT, I’m rooting for each and every one of you to fulfill your personal goals with girls.
Maybe you want to learn Game in order to meet a girl and eventually settle down, or you might be pursuant of the player lifestyle instead and desire to travel the world indulging yourself in various different girls.
Whatever your personal goals are, understand that it might NOT come easily.
Understand that you will spend countless hours and many lonely nights in learning Game, but that only with experience, comes success in a very CONSISTENT form.
A beautiful woman is the MOST desired of ANYTHING to a man, save the accumulation of money.
I have yet to meet a straight man who does NOT desire the company of beautiful women more than anything, besides possibly money.
And the ones who have mass quantities of wealth, focused their energy on making lots of money solely to pull the hottest girls.
Many of us in the mano-sphere are accused of hating women and thus we desire to exploit and dump them; however, NOTHING could be further from the REAL actual truth.
In fact, it is BECAUSE I love women so much, that I write these articles and it’s because I know game is something that can be LEARNED, that I share my advice with you.
It is hard, especially in the beginning; but it is definitely NOT impossible.
The pursuit of women and the quest for success with Game is a noble pursuit and I definitely commend you.
You will be mocked, ridiculed and cajoled by status quo schmucks intent on drizzling their fears and inadequacies on anyone around them who are foolish enough to listen and adhere to their ‘advice’, but ignore them and carry on.
Game helps you not only with girls, but in other arenas of life including business.
Life without Game, isn’t life.
Game sweetens life, it is the key to living a life that is worthy of a memoir that can inspire, entertain and teach, all at the same time.
Don’t be discouraged when that little tart at the grocery story shoots down your request for her phone number.
Don’t be discouraged when at the very last moment the fake tits, peroxide bleach blond girl from the club allows her best friend to cock-block you.
It’s all apart of the journey.
Smile to yourself and know that one day you will become great at game.
Now go and do.
Until next time.
Your man,
-Elijah “The Realist”
P.S Check out my book: Rapid Seduction Secrets
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