Excuses.
What a shitty word that it is.
I totally despise it.
It is the enemy of our dreams, our goals and the poison of our ambition.
Excuses have set me back and have taken precious time from me that I will NEVER recover.
Why do we all make excuses?
Because we are weak?
Because we are afraid?
Because we actually fear success?
Excuses are comforting.
They provide a detour from the ‘hard’ path and an outlet to explain why we haven’t made progress with our respective goals.
I’m done with any and ALL excuses.
Will you join me in saying a hearty ‘Fuck You’ to excuses?
One of the main questions I get regarding game is this: “Is there a shortcut to learning Game?
Do I really need to put in the time to become great with women, or can I just read a book or take a course?”
The answer is, of course… No.
There is NOTHING that replaces you getting out there and experiencing rejection and success completely on your own.
Guys like me can certainly provide you tools in your journey, but make no mistake, you MUST put in the work in order to get the results that you REALLY desperately WANT.
Have you ever heard the guy who talks like this about meeting girls:
“She’s too hot, she’s too ugly, she’s not into short guys, she only dates jocks”, etc?
Maybe you’re that guy.
Always having an excuse in order to avoid developing your game and in the process SHORTCHANGING your life.
If this is you, it’s time to say “Fuck Excuses, I’m getting laid”.
Commit to the journey, because it definitely WILL be a journey.
Enjoy the journey, the experiences and the highs and lows that you will encounter, because the journey is where the reward is hidden.
In a perfect world, we would all have $100 million in the bank, have model good looks and be born into royalty, but that’s NOT the way that it is.
Life is freaking unfair.
Realize that and embrace it NOW so you don’t waste time on what you CANNOT control and instead…
Focus on what YOU can actually control.
Every one of us, in our own way has strengths and talents.
How do you make them shine?
How do you make money from your talents?
What can you start doing TODAY, utilizing the positive that will make your tomorrow much better?
I know how it feels to be broken emotionally, bankrupted financially and depressed to the point of suicidal.
It fucking sucks and if you’re experiencing any of those, then know this: I can relate and things WILL get better, but only IF you pull yourself up by the bootstraps and tough it out.
During times like this, it can seem like it’s impossible to have any game at all with girls, but it is STILL possible.
I’ve gotten laid when living in a car, so trust me, If I can, you can too.
Maybe your focus will be on getting back on your feet primarily, and it should be, but don’t forget to have some fun and get your dick wet as well.
Start today, fuck the excuses and decide no matter what, you’re going to become great with women.
It’ll change your life for the better.
I know, because it changed mine.
Until next time.
Your man,
-Elijah “The Realist”
