To launch my new book, Rapid Seduction Secrets, I’ve chosen this week to give you gents an excerpt from it.
Never before has there been a system designed to help you pick up not only just TONS of beautiful women… but also cute fine Strippers.
Strippers can be the MOST elusive girls to pickup, IF you don’t have the proper game to actually do so.
Without further ado, I present The 5 Commandments of Stripclub Game.
5. Don’t Drink
“What Elijah?! You always talk about drinking while gaming…”
You’re correct in thinking that, but I’m NOT talking about Club Game right now; I’m talking about Stripclub Game, which is a completely different animal.
From your energy, to how you conduct yourself, it’s a completely different ballgame.
Thus, No Drinking and here’s EXACTLY why:
-First off, when dealing with professional cash makers, the last thing you need to be is 100% completely buzzed.
It affects your decision-making and will cause you to make a BUNCH amateur mistakes…
That you wouldn’t normally make, such as buying lap dances, ‘making it rain’, and other foolish try-hard moves that I’ve seen a thousand times.
Would you go into a business meeting completely buzzed or totally black-out drunk?
More than likely not, if MAKING MONEY is a MAJOR priority in your life.
The same goes for pulling strippers: they are EXPERTS at pulling money out of men, so how do you combat that and immediately turn the tables?
By NOT succumbing to what the average fucker does: drinking.
-You’re NOT going to be at the strip club long, so there’s no point in drinking and then turning around an hour later and driving completely buzzed.
-Your mental wits being on point is KEY to dealing with strippers.
They are judging you from the moment you walk in from how you carry yourself, to what you say and where you sit.
“Is this another john, or a playboy that I’d like to fuck?”, the strippers are thinking.
How do I know?
Because they’ve told me that EXACT phrase.
-It’ll make your game that much sharper to have zero reliance on drinking.
Zip, zilch, nada.
Leave the booze for that date with the Starbucks Slut, or when you’re in the club running bottle service game with your buddies.
Stripclub Game = Zero alcohol.
You heard it here first.
Instead, order a soda water with lime, a Red Bull, or even a cup of coffee.
-The exception to this rule, is if you have a strip club On-Lock, to the point where they give you a comped bottle.
In Vegas strip clubs, I’m comped bottles, which is fine for treating my clients, however, it can take a while to get a strip club On-Lock and generally, a lot of strip clubs don’t actually REALLY do bottle service.
Even then, I’m NOT a big fan of drinking the bottle myself.
Let your friends and the strippers drink the bottle;
it’s at no cost to you and while they’ll be stumbling around and trying to spit game, you’ll be razor-sharp and pulling the hottest strippers there.
4. ‘Sniper’ vs. ‘Shotgun’ Style Game
A nightclub with high energy, really loud music and a lot of people, is totally different from a stripclub.
Stripclubs tend to be lounge style, with music obviously, but, instead of pounding Tiesto, they have a slow T-Pain song on, cats are sitting down and not fist pumping, and there’s a sensual vibe, instead of a high energy party vibe.
These major differences means that your game style will be vastly different.
While in the club, you may roam around dropping flirtatious remarks to twenty different hotties, combined with a high energy fun dynamic, but in the stripclub, you’ll be like an actual ‘sniper’.
Cool, calm, collected and picking your ‘target’ with utmost precision.
Also, you’ll be getting in and out quicker, while at the club you may spend hours working different girls.
Stripclub Game is a calculated style and patience is a god damn virtue.
The strippers have work to do, so they’re NOT going to walk out with you after 5 minutes of conversation.
Instead, due to 99% of stripclubs having the “Can’t leave with a customer” policy, the stripper will have to wait until AFTER her shift is over and then she will meet up with you.
While both styles are fun in their own right, learning the differednce and becoming great at BOTH, will only add to your pussy coffers even more.
3. Don’t Buy Lap Dances, But You Can Buy Them A Drink
The Number 1 question I get regarding stripclubs, is:
“Should I spend money on the stripper?”
And the answer is ‘yes’ AND ‘no’.
You should NOT buy lap dances, private dances, or any type of physical interaction between the two of you.
Zero.
You are NOT a john and the moment you spend money on them, you immediately become an automatic customer.
Listen closely: I have NEVER pulled a stripper having spent money on her, but I have pulled many many strippers utilizing a technique, which I’ll explain in a bit.
*Note: Can a cat go to a stripclub, spend hundreds or thousands on a girl and potentially fuck her later that night, or even at the stripclub?
Of course, but you’re a Player, not a Played.
You’re a Casanova-In-Training, not a putz who is reliant on spending money to get to that pussy.
Add to this, that no matter what my friend, you’ll NEVER spend more than another customer she’s already had.
I’ve had clients spend literally thousands ($15,000+) on lap dances and private dances and get literally NOTHING in return;
While I sat back, used ‘sniper’ game and wound up meeting up with the stripper later that SAME NIGHT, much to the chagrin of my client(s).
Don’t be a schmuck to fuck.
What can you actually spend money on?
Drinks for the strippers.
Now think about this for a second, you go to a club, meet a hottie and buy a couple of shots for the two of you, no big deal right?
Right.
Now in a stripclub, there is a certain etiquette and that includes spending SOME money in order to actually be there.
When you see a stripper that strikes your fancy and one who you MIGHT want to bang, then after she sits down, you may order a non-alcoholic drink for yourself and casually ask her what she wants to drink.
This does NOT make you a schmuck getting her drunk, it’s super casual, non-expensive stripclub etiquette combined with being an effortless playboy.
Buying her a drink accomplishes a couple of important aspects of gaming in a stripclub:
1. The management and stripper pressure on you to buy lap dances etc, diminishes 100 fold.
You are NOW a paying customer, NOT a frog on a log getting your eye candy feel.
2. Shows her you’re NOT a cheap freaking skate… and you can hold your own while out and about, but also, she can use the excuse to her boss that you “were buying her drinks, so she talked for a bit with you”.
This is key: she HAS to make money, that’s literally her #1 job.
If you’re buying her a drink or two, she can NOW chill with you while you spit game, WITHOUT putting lap dance pressure on you.
The burden will be lifted, which allows her to relax and drop the ‘mask’, that ALL strippers use so well.
2. Roll Solo
Afraid of rolling solo?
Cut that fear out of your life immediately.
Stripclubs are perfect venues to roll solo to and in fact, it works BEST when you actually do.
Rolling to a nightclub solo may be intimidating for some of you, however, if you want to get in some good practice, start with stripclubs.
At stripclubs, it’s quite common to see a cat by themselves, so it’s natural and almost ALWAYS expected.
Here’s why you WANT to roll solo to a stripclub and why it works BEST for picking up a stripper:
1. Rolling solo with the proper correct body language + swagger = HIGH DHV (Demonstration of High Value).
Nothing screams ‘confident’, like a man who can walk into a venue of ANY kind and command the room while being by himself.
This makes you a non-needy man and one who is NOT dependent on peers to have a good time.
The key here is to be: Coming From Somewhere, Doing Something In The Moment and Going Somewhere.
For example:
-It’s 9pm on a Saturday night.
You worked out, got dressed, had dinner and are killing an hour of time, before going to a birthday party.
You are at the stripclub doing some business on your phone (not making calls, but texting, making notes etc).
You expect to be leaving in an hour or less to go meet your friends at the birthday party.
So you have a strong purpose and are not just idling sitting at the stripclub with absolutely NOTHING going on in your life and NOWHERE to go.
This automatically gives your physical body a PURPOSE, which controls your body language, your speech and how confident you actually feel.
Think for a moment of those times where you had a hot date lined up for the night…
How did you actually feel?
You went to the gym and on the way home stopped to pick up a steak at the grocery story.
When you walked into Piggly Fucking Wiggly Supermarket, you had a pep in your step and a confidence in your body language and speech.
You smiled at the cute cashier and flirted a bit.
You looked at the pimply bagger boy and actually thanked him for bagging your steak separate from the deodorant you also bought.
You were a real-life magnet.
People were drawn to look at you and simply acknowledge your presence.
Why?
Because you had a PURPOSE in WHERE you were going and exactly WHAT you were actually doing.
Now back to the stripclub…
You’re sitting in a chair away from the main stage and are handling some business on your phone.
Your body language is casual, collected, non-needy and you’re NOT staring at every single stripper like you’ve NEVER seen tits, ass and a snatch before.
You are a man of VALUE and YOU are the prize.
You notice a particular stripper who catches your eye and one who you’d definitely like to bang.
You motion her over casually and instruct her to sit down in the chair beside you.
NOT on you right away, but simply beside you.
She sits down and the cocktail waitress buzzes over immediately and you instruct her to get you a Red Bull and the stripper whatever she would like.
You casually drop a bill on the cocktail platter and finish up some business with your phone while half-listening to the stripper babble.
Now think about that frame for a second?
YOU are in charge the whole ENTIRE time.
YOU decide when the conversation REALLY actually starts and EXACTLY how it’s going to go.
If there’s one thing strippers love and I do mean love, it’s a dominant male leader.
Fact: They tend to be lost little souls and they are very drawn to alpha men.
If you’re with a bumbling friend who hasn’t been out of the house in a month due to his ball and chain, then odds are, he’s going to do EVERYTHING possibly wrong.
Roll solo and reap the benefits.
Also, DON’T bring your guy friends around the strip clubs you already got On-Lock.
These are YOUR Pussy Paradises and trust me, one stupid move from your ‘friend’, can tarnish and ruin all of the work that you have already put in.
1. Move Fast And Then Get The Fuck Out
Part of building massive DHV with strippers is that your night consists of stopping in at a stripclub, but the totality of your night is NOT the stripclub.
It’s like a great appetizer, but NOT the main course.
Here’s why:
-You’re a busy playboy and you’re NOT going to sit in a stripclub for 4 hours staring at hot naked chicks for NO REASON.
Your SOLE only reason for going to a stripclub is to meet some strippers, target one of them, build DHV + Comfort and set up logistics.
-Your composure, as I mentioned before, is being calm, cool and collected.
Imagine the MOST smoothest player you’ve seen in action or an imaginary player such as James Bond or Hank Moody.
What about them is smooth?
They are Casual, Chill, Non-Needy and always On-The Go.
Now of course, these two characters are fictional, but that in no way takes away from their game styles being effective in the real world.
So while you’re on a time limit for being at the strip club, your composure is definitely NOT hurried.
-Walk in, purvey the spot, pick a seat (away from the main stage. I break this down EXACTLY in my book), casually check out the strippers and decide on EXACTLY who your target is.
Motion her over casually (there’s a reason why you motion her over), order yourself a non-alcoholic drink and her a drink of her choice.
Build DHV + Comfort, get her phone number and lastly set up logistics for you BOTH to meet up immediately AFTER her shift is over.
In conclusion, Stripclub Game can be VERY rewarding:
-Not yet 21 years old?
Doesn’t matter.
Most stripclubs in the US are 18+ establishments.
Some are 18+ to get in and 21+ to drink.
-It can be as cheap as day game.
Cover is ALWAYS negotiable and usually FREE your first time.
Once you develop a good rapport with management, you’ll be comped every single time.
-You’re NOT drinking alcohol, so you’re saving money and the 1-2 drinks that you buy a stripper is ALWAYS under $20.
–Stripper game can be much more rewarding, due to the ‘elusive’ challenge of strippers, as well as the MOST sexually satisfying lays, because strippers, if they are ANYTHING, is that they are highly sexual girls.
-One of the BEST ways to get a threesome? Learn Stripclub Game.
-One of the BEST ways to get a sexy little freak? Learn Stripclub Game.
Until next time.
Your man,
-Elijah “The Realist”
P.S To get the bible on Stripclub Game, check out my BRAND NEW eBook Rapid Seduction Secrets.
