Why does the modern woman value charm and humor?
Why can’t you wear a t-shirt listing your top ten accomplishments, yearly income, and penis length — assuming it’s above average — to get laid with as many women as you desire?
Even for spinsters who desperately want a provider husband, a t-shirt like that is guaranteed to turn her off.
A monster cock will not help you in getting that first bang.
What is it about the indirect insinuation of a man’s value that, when combined with a touch of humor and wit, makes a woman decide to sleep with him?
I believe this a question that scientists are failing to answer.
They’ll go on about physical symmetry and gene fitness and what not but they can’t properly explain why something like humor is almost a universal attractant for Western women.
I can see why social proof matters, since it offers a shortcut for a woman to judge a man’s overall desirability, but accomplished sarcasm?
Witty banter?
Playing Wonderwall on the guitar?
Having claimed to live in Iceland without having to actually show any proof?
For the continuance of the human species, it’s not clear that those things matter.
Girls weigh those qualities heavily because there are millions and millions of accomplished men in the world who have good jobs, acceptable penis size, and a fine capacity to raise children.
Therefore the modern woman is paralyzed from choosing the most “valuable” man to mate with.
For her there are too many seemingly equal choices, so she ends up selecting on trivial factors that is insignifcant for evolutionary theory to justify.
To her she’s selecting on “interesting” or “worthy” qualities, but most men know it’s bullshit, which is why we often roll our eyes when a woman is impressed with another man’s accomplishments that appear rather insignificant.
While a peacock’s ability to maintain those cumbersome feathers is a sign of his toughness, my ability to write a blog or slum it around the world more cheaply than in the States (things that have contributed greatly to me getting laid) offers a less direct link to being worthy of bearing her children.
But the fact is that those things are different and scarce, so therefore it has value in the eyes of today’s female.
We can bemoan a woman’s selection process, or we can simply find out what they’re selecting for to get sex right now before nerdy scientists figure everything out.
You must simply do things or possess qualities that not a lot of other men have to increase the rate at which you’re selected for sex.
It starts with good conversation skills and ends with interesting hobbies or experiences.
I’ve long since learned that women don’t fuck me based on what I should have as a man (stable income, bed frame), but what I have that other men don’t.
It’s what causes you to stand out, just like the peacock, which determines your sexual results.
This is why guys get hooked onto game, a one-size-fits-all ideology that teaches you wit, charm, humor, confidence, and the logistical know-how to get sex, qualities that are cumulatively possessed by not many other men.
As popular as you think game is, it’s still being actively practiced by a tiny minority of men, and mastered by few.
This is why today is a glorious day for the gamesman.
His feathers are larger and brighter than the others, and until the next generation catches up, he will enjoy more success with women.
Until next time.
Your man,
-Elijah “The Realist”
