“Apparently, he was not totally ignorant of one of life’s great secrets:
Women don’t look for handsome men, they look for men with beautiful women.
Having an ugly mistress is therefore a fatal error.”
Not being needy is important because it shows girls you’re already getting what you, well, need.
Girls want sex from men who are already getting sex.
Despite every girl’s protest to the contrary, the more partners you’ve had the better, because each vagina you’ve demolished acts as a seal of approval of your worthiness.
What better way for a girl to screen out new dick by finding out many other girls lined up to take a ride on it?
The reason I know this is fact and not mere conjecture is the large number of girls I’ve banged who knew about my blog beforehand.
If you ask these girls a straight-forward question about sleeping with a guy who has had many partners, 100% would say they hate it, it’s gross, the AIDS, etc., but yet they have done it with me, and I’m certain I’m not the only “exception.”
Even girls who have found out about my blog after having sex end up returning for seconds.
In fact it’s a guarantee she’ll come back, even flying internationally to do so, because now she experiences a self-esteem boost knowing that she’s fucking a guy who is successful with women.
End conversations early.
Cancel dates.
Be late.
Appear disinterested.
Don’t lean in.
Stop trying to kiss her all the time.
Don’t tell her when you’ll contact her.
Don’t say you’ve been in love.
Don’t talk at all about your exes.
Don’t console her.
Take days to call her back after first time sex.
Don’t ask for her opinions.
Be insensitive.
All these behaviors show you’re not needy, that you don’t give a fuck.
They convey to the girl that you can get away with doing these things because you’re probably already banging and she better shape up if she wants her vagina to be demolished as well.
There’s no shortcut to this:
You can’t just tell a girl you’ve fucked a lot of girls and expect her to be turned on.
Insinuate instead, and be rewarded handsomely.
When you’re in a foreign country and unable to communicate perfectly with words, or cultural differences make it hard to show value or humor, not being needy will be the cornerstone of your game.
Until next time.
Your man,
-Elijah “The Realist”
