A common mistake that guys make is having two different types of game:
One for girls they don’t care about and one for girls they do.
So they go to a bar, spit something indifferent to a chubby girl, and then all of a sudden perk up for the hotter girl that comes within their sights.
When you overvalue a girl by thinking you need to spit your high-octane game, your brain concludes that it’s dealing with something “important.”
It will then increase your anxiety and fear about making a mistake, leading you to spit inferior game.
By overvaluing the girl and changing tactics, you put the pussy on the pedestal, and we all know where that leads you (hint: not pussy).
The correct move is to have one default game that you use on every girl.
If you meet a girl at school, she gets your default school game.
If you meet her at the bar, she gets your default bar game.
If you normally go for the kiss at the end of the first date, then that’s what you should do for every single girl.
I don’t care how good this new girl looks or how conservative or educated she is, because the time you think that a girl is “special” or different, deserving a new type of game that you haven’t perfected, is the time you don’t get her.
She must mold to your timeline and fuck track, not the other way around, and if she doesn’t then it’s on to the next one.
Come up with a game that works for you, and then use that game for everyone.
Minor adjustments here or there are fine, but don’t change your tested strategy because you think you’re dealing with a magical girl.
Once you see every girl in the same light, what will happen is that beauty no longer gets your motor running like before.
You treat those pretty girls as poorly as the others and realize that all of them are more or less the same.
Seducing an 8 will be no harder than seducing a homely 6, and often it’ll be easier.
Until next time.
Your man,
-Elijah “The Realist”
