A blowout is when a girl doesn’t allow you to finish your opener, doesn’t respond, or makes fun of you.
In any night venue, if you get blown out three times in a row at any point, leave.
Even if you’re a newbie and your game skill is low, you should not be in a place where you can’t even find one girl to indulge your approach for a few seconds.
I wholly believe in persisting until the end of the night, but three in a row is my canary in a coal mine that the odds are stacked against me in that particular location.
In the past year it has always held true that when three consecutive blowouts happened, I would not be getting laid no matter how many more approaches I made or how hard I tried.
For whatever reason, some venues are so bad that your normally tight game cannot begin to counter it’s black hole pulling you into a reluctant masturbatory session.
Sometimes you’ll discover that a venue can be great one night, but awful the next.
An example is a Latin club I used to go to here in Poznan, which was fun on weekdays with girls who were reasonably friendly.
The music was cheesy, but I enjoyed hanging out by the bar and doing an approach once every twenty minutes or so.
Things changed on the weekends when there was a large influx of “bridge and tunnel” guys, both Polish and Spaniard, whose presence caused the girls to ice up.
Whereas on Thursday at the Latin club I could meet a girl and get laid, on Friday night I couldn’t even get a girl to respond to me, even though I’m the same guy in the same venue spitting the same game on a girl who is on the same level as the night before.
The three blowout rule was being broken so regularly that I stopped going there on weekend nights entirely, instead frequenting a quieter club across the street where it has never happened that I got three blowouts in a row.
The irony is that you may do great at the Latin club on the weekend but get the three consecutive blowouts in the club I do well at.
This is why venue experimentation is so important.
Follow your data, not the crowd.
Think for a second about how much of a bitch a girl has to be to blow out a guy, even if that guy’s line is weak.
What has to be going through her mind to completely disrespect a man who, while may not have the best game, is being respectful about trying to start a conversation?
It’s the mind of a girl who has absolutely no interest in being real, friendly, or even human.
It’s okay to get rejected and have stalled conversations, but finding three cunts in a row is the same as god giving you a personal message to get the fuck out and go somewhere else.
It’d be wise to act on that message.
Until next time.
Your man,
-Elijah “The Realist”
