Through my travels I’ve adopted a strong appreciation for American-style game — the same game that is made fun of by feminists and haters who love tearing apart it’s negging and peacocking attributes (two things I believe should be microscopic features of any man’s repertoire).
The truth is that when done right, American game is at the top of it’s class.
Only American men and their Western counterparts in England, Ireland, and Australia have the skill and ability to walk up to girls at any time of the day, sober or not, and start an interaction that leads to sex.
I don’t have to tell you that approaching is hard.
It takes years to get to an elite level and even then it’s still hard.
There is a trail of tears left by men who attempted it but simply didn’t have enough fortitude to push forward.
Those same men are left participating in kickball, frisbee, and dodgeball clubs to meet unattractive women.
For the majority of men in the world, watching a guy approach a girl cold and end up with a phone number or kiss might as well be magic, and I personally take it for granted that I have this ability when so many will die before even having a minor success from it.
Like any other challenging skill, the rewards are immense for those guys that learn it, but I find that only Western men are motivated enough to master approaching without the aid of a dance floor.
The ultimate show of game commitment is approaching during the day, something you only see done by Western men.
From movies and television you’ll get the impression that Spanish or Italian men have the best game.
I wholeheartedly disagree.
They are more scared to approach, and once they finally gather the liquid courage, all they do is compliment and show needy behavior.
If you grill any American girl who has had a lot of experience with them, the term “creepy” will be thrown around frequently.
Only naive Western girls who swing by those countries for a short amount of time fall for their compliment & cuddle game.
Hell, even I believed Spanish guys were game masters thanks to watching movies like Vicki Cristina Barcelona, but witnessing them in action has been an exercise in trying not to spit out my drink from laughter.
How about men from other countries?
Here’s a small sampling:
Brazil.
These guys are top contenders for best game, but there’s a big problem:
They move way too fast.
They get a lot of kisses, but less bangs than those kisses would predict.
Brazilian guys are samplers, not closer’s, but still get an honorable mention for their strong alpha game.
Iceland.
The worst game I’ve ever seen in my life.
The guys don’t know how to approach or have conversation.
They wait for girls to approach them.
Denmark.
They have strong social circle game and their conversation skills are better than Icelandic guys, but they are too scared to approach unless drunk.
Poland.
There’s a Dr. Jekyll and Hyde thing going on with them.
When sober they’re pathetic beta’s who would pee their pants at the sight of a beautiful woman, but when they drink they step up and do dance floor approaches that work for them since their women love to dance.
Ecuador.
I was very impressed by Ecuadorian men.
They’re salsa dancing is magical and they have a positive attitude that draw women in.
They’re persistent and not afraid to approach outside of the club.
If you’re in Latin America and see a short dark guy approaching like a madman, I bet he’s from Ecuador.
Argentina.
Similar to guys from Spain, but a little more aggressive.
You have a few guys who are animals in the club but most depend on social circle game.
And now for Western guys:
England.
Great humor and charm, but when they over drink they turn loud and obnoxious.
They cock block themselves with their lack of alcohol control.
Australian.
Also good humor with a great cocky vibe, but sometimes this borders on abrasive, which pushes girls away.
They can be the most annoying of Western men.
Irish.
The funniest of the bunch, but worse than the English when it comes to cock blocking with drink.
American.
Most laid back, at the cost of being more passive, but they are best at preventing sabotage.
Therefore they are better at sealing the deal on girls who aren’t drunk.
When it comes down to it, two guys in the world have the best game:
Western guys and Latin guys.
Western guys have better conversation ability and cocky humor while Latin guys have better dancing ability.
Unfortunately, Latin guys have terrible conversational skills that prevents me from crowning them with the top spot.
By saying “American” I’m including black guys, who help raise the level of American game by picking up slack of the beta white dudes who are too chicken to approach.
Without black guys on our team, we would definitely be worse than the English or Australians, but their cool factor and aggressiveness puts them on the starting roster.
Plenty a white man would do himself a favor by learning their fearless approach style.
If you are American, understand that your culture possesses the right mix of factors that allow you to excel in cold approaching.
You’re more talkative than most other guys in the world and you have female targets that not only are talkative themselves but don’t mind being picked up.
For you not to take advantage of that environment — to believe the Hollywood bullshit that European men are better than you is to shit on your American heritage.
In other words, you are better than you think you are, and I know this because I’ve seen how godawful foreign men are when it comes to approaching and flirting.
The truth is that an American with tight game is just about impossible to compete with.
He’s not a romantic and he’s not a particularly skilled dancer, but boy can he bullshit his way into a girl’s pants.
Until next time.
Your man,
-Elijah “The Realist”
