How do you approach hot chicks when hot chicks seem so god damn intimidating?
If you saw THIS hot chick, you’d likely stop in your tracks and feel a pang of anxiety at the mere thought of approaching her.
You would be totally afraid to approach this hot chick, right?
If you said no, you’re lying to two people – me AND yourself.
There’s no need for ANY bravado.
She is as close to a 10 as it actually gets.
Wars are fought over women who look like her.
When you start out in the game, approaching nearly any girl takes a bit of courage, which is why MOST men CANNOT actually do ANY sober approaches.
Approaching a chick like her, even if you’ve been at this for a long while, is going to give you a bit of an adrenaline rush.
How do YOU actually overcome YOUR approach anxiety?
It is EASY, and I will tell you EXACTLY why:
The chick who you THINK is way too hot to approach is with SOME guy. If you saw that guy, you would NOT be all that impressed.
Seriously.
Look around.
Haven’t you ever seen a REALLY hot girl with a guy and thought…
“What’s she doing with him?”
You probably assumed the guy had a lot of money or something.
It’s totally natural to have an automatic hater’s response.
“She’s a gold digger,”
or to think like a loser:
“If I were rich, then I’d get a girl like her!”
There are whole ENTIRE websites devoted to hating on guys who are with hot chicks.
Just check out “The Dirty” or “Hot Chicks With Douche-bags.”
The TRUTH is that the “guy” isn’t nearly as special as you THINK that he is.
He doesn’t have a hidden billion dollar trust account.
He just simply had the balls to… make the approach.
Here is that girl’s boyfriend:
It seems they’ve been together for a while, although even if this is a hoax, the point STILL stands:
For every hot chick who YOU are too afraid to approach, there is a girl dating a guy who YOU wouldn’t be impressed with.
So what’s stopping YOU from being the “guy” that some jealous hater scratches his head at and thinks:
“What’s she doing with him?”
Until next time.
Your man,
-Elijah “The Realist”