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We live in VERY odd and contradictory times. On one hand every man believes that he is an original. A unique snowflake. Special. I see the Snowflake Complex in my email inbox every single day. “I know you wrote this, Elijah, but what about me and my situation?” Yet those same “originals” regularly copy and rip off blog content…
Some are of the opinion that your destiny is completely 100% out of your control. That your destiny has already been pre-determined and you have absolutely NO CHOICE in the matter. Some believe that it does NOT matter if you TAKE ACTION or if you decide to very simply DO NOTHING. Some believe that whatever…
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I’m known for my mental toughness. At the gym no one really likes me because I look like a flat out psychopath. During a heavy set I will see stars and I have literally NO FEAR of dying in the gym. I have endured some truly horrible life experiences and NOT merely survived them: I…
There is something so hard for guys to admit that most would deny its obvious truth. The TRUTH is WAY TOO shameful. The truth is that WHEREVER you are is EXACTLY where YOU want to actually be. Whatever you are doing RIGHT NOW is EXACTLY what YOU want to do. You do NOT need to…
People are very good at doing two things – surviving crises and accepting mediocrity. To protect our egos, we use euphemisms for mediocrity. We say we are good enough rather than admit we have accepted mediocre life outcomes. To some extent, we can REALLY actually blame evolution. Our bodies are regulated by the parasympathetic and sympathetic nervous…
Why do some men achieve a level of success formerly unthinkable only to stall out later in life? We all know (or maybe we all have been) the guy who goes from NOT getting laid very often to suddenly getting laid regularly. He has a harem of 6’s and an occasional 7, but he NEVER…
From the desk of Elijah “The Realist” Subject: How to improve your mood WITHOUT using pharmaceutical pills, how to be comfortable in your own skin, how to be normal and NOT totally insane Reading time: 8-12 minutes Offensive material: Hell Yes! How to Improve Your Mood 1) Be around other people Humans are social creatures….
1) Have a goal Seems obvious, right? If you don’t have a goal, then you have absolutely NO REASON to ever BE or even STAY motivated. To stay motivated you have to have a MAJOR goal, a Personal Life Mission, that you can work towards… relentlessly… every single day! Goals can be gigantic or very…
A goal is a dream with a deadline. -Napoleon Hill The damnedest thing about having a job is that when I had days off, I inevitably found myself bored. How ridiculous, huh? I’d whine and complain about how much I hated my job, but when my two precious days off came I didn’t do anything…
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Do you want to know the SECRET to giving up all of your negative bad habits? Do you know WHY you have a whole bunch of bad habits in the first place? I will tell you why, and my answer isn’t the one self-help gurus will give to you. There is a sad secret that…
