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Here’s an email I received last month… “Elijah, Happy 30th! Will you give me some insight/advice on career/life development. I believe we share similar ideals and interests. Hearing your perspective may help me set some goals and develop a plan. I am 24 y/old sales professional living in a downtown area of an east coast…
I want to share with you an epiphany I had years ago. I was trying to bang this girl and she was being very flaky and taking forever to get back to me. I asked my friend what I should do about it and we proceeded to go over my options after I told him…
A consistent way to feel depressed or unhappy is to compare yourself to other people. He has a hotter girl than me. He has a better job than me. He has more stylish clothing. His apartment has a better view of the city. His cozy neighborhood cafe has poetry readings and I love poetry. All I have is a…
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The attainment of a large goal leads to a burst of happiness, followed by an unhappy void where you ask “What do I do next?” It’s the work, in the form of your creativity, energy, planning, meditation, and problem-solving that fulfills you and takes your focus off suffering. Avoid poisonous existentialist thoughts by keeping yourself busy with…
Having to experience flaky chicks is probably the most frustrating aspect of game. You had chemistry with a girl, exchanged contact information, and perhaps did a little kissy action, but she simply wouldn’t get back to you or agree to plans. And then you analyze every bit of the interaction to see what you did “wrong.”…
A lot of things that used to get me upset or angry in the past rarely does now, whether it’s bad traffic, getting sick, facing unexpected expenses, scabies, or the like. Life experience has taught me that any unpleasantness will pass shortly with only a small chance of permanent harm. But not with everything. In…
I’ve been noticing a trend in self-help circles of being “outcome independent.” It’s when you don’t worry about the outcome and just put in the attempt and shrug your shoulders at the result. Outcome independence reminds me of kindergarten where you still got your gold star even if you didn’t accomplish anything. Let me ask you this:…
In Rapid Seduction Secrets I shared a lot of openers for specific venues, but some can be so specific that it’s not easy to adapt them in slightly different environments. I’ve stumbled on a new subset of day openers that solve this problem. Let’s say I’m in a Croatian bookstore and I’ve decided on a “Where…
Guys always ask me the same question when I return from approaching a girl. What did you say? Specifically, they want to know what my opening line was. I ask the same question to other guys too actually, and it’s because the nature of the game dictates that the opener is the hardest part. You always want…
Here is a grocery store excerpt from Rapid Seduction Secrets… Approach a girl while she’s shopping, timing your movements to intersect either in an aisle or at some point around the perimeter. Just make sure to catch her before the checkout line, and preferably before she reaches the frozen foods section. [Another] option is to…