As a part of sharing personal stories to better help you gents understand and apply game techniques, I’ve decided to do a step-by-step breakdown of a one night stand I recently had.
-I was at a popular swanky Hollywood type restaurant and bar with a wing-man/buddy of mine.
-We were both wearing nice dark denim jeans, fitted T’s and sport coats with pocket squares.
Our style was the best in the joint.
Think about that…we looked the best style wise which already put us ahead of the ‘competition’.
-We were at the main bar having drinks and chatting with some cute girls, but nothing special.
-As we left the bar to go to a different section of the bar, I spotted TWO cute girls sitting by themselves looking bored.
Note: TWO girls.
I always look for two because that’s generally two girls out to have some fun and looking for guys.
-One was a blonde white girl and the other a brunette white girl, both in the 7.5-8 range.
-I opened the blonde with “Fucking A, how bored are you girls?”
(This is assuming they are bored, because they looked bored and because if I’m NOT talking with a girl then naturally she is bored.
This is a subtle way of placing yourself into a High Value bracket to the girl and should be your attitude because you have built up your confidence and swagger.)
-She laughed, I introduced myself and we chatted for a minute about mundane shit.
-The area we were standing in was a high traffic area by some stairs, so I took control of the situation and said “Let’s go to the patio so I can smoke”.
I didn’t wait for an answer.
I took the blonde by her hand interlacing my fingers just like if we were boyfriend and girlfriend and LED her and her friend to the patio.
My wing was behind them.
-The patio was closed, but I told one of the employees:
“It’ll be fine, don’t worry about it just set us up a table to sit”.
(I tipped him $40).
Boom, now we have the whole patio to ourselves and I just showed within 5 minutes of meeting these girls a few different qualities:
1. I have balls.
I approached them with confidence.
2. I do what I want.
By saying I want to smoke and taking her by the hand, she knows I’m a man who leads.
3. I made what seemed like a bad situation with the patio being closed, into an opportunity to show that I’m a Boss.
I make shit happen.
-We sat down and I ordered ONE round of drinks.
I only bought one round the entire night and got laid.
(In fact at the second venue the blonde bought us a round of drinks) I handed the brunette a crisp C-note and told her to get us a round of drinks.
She happily obliged.
Once again, more Boss Behavior.
Not handing her a credit card, or some bullshit.
Cash is ALWAYS King.
-Then I started to build comfort with the blonde.
I asked what she does, where she’s from, etc. EVERYONE loves to talk about themselves.
-At one point I went into the Bubble Mode:
I pulled her close and whispered in her ear:
“You are so fucking gorgeous. Kiss me” then kissed her on the mouth.
She melted.
This is what I call a Alpha/Beta Move:
You’re being ‘beta’ by complimenting, but then it’s balanced by being Alpha and saying “Kiss me” in a dominating manner then instantly kissing her.
I use shit like this constantly.
-Next was the Venue Change.
I suggested we go to an ultra exclusive private members only club.
It’s a hot spot for the Who’s Who of Los Angeles including celebs etc.
They agreed.
-My buddy called a Town Car Uber and we all bounced to the private venue.
During the time we waited for the car I gave her the Boyfriend Experience: holding hands, kissing and standing close to her.
This is KEY for transitioning from a venue to another venue and eventually home.
-We get dropped off, was ushered in by the smoking hot hostesses, and we’re inside.
By this point it’s around 1:15 am roughly.
Place closes at 2 am per Cali law.
-We all go the bar and the blonde treats her friend, my buddy and myself to a round of drinks.
-I go full on building comfort and attraction.
We sat on the patio and I had her sit on my lap and we talked and chilled.
-I then get a text from some buddies of mine who were having a crazy hotel party down the street.
We then venue change again to that party.
I could have just taken her home at this point, but she was a party type girl and I’m a party type guy so it worked.
-We partied at my buddy’s hotel for a bit, then I said “Let’s go to your spot”.
She agreed and we left.
-Show up at her spot, have a drink, then she takes me into her room and we have sex.
Meanwhile, her friend and my buddy we had left at the private club went to his pad and hooked up.
Everyone wins.
-This was a textbook One Night Stand:
Approach > Inside Venue Change > Build Comfort > Kiss > Actual Venue Change > More Comfort and Attraction building = Close.
-A couple of key points: I took her by the hand within 2-3 minutes of meeting her to lead her to the patio.
It’s KEY to get physical very quickly.
I also spent around an hour building Comfort + Attraction with her before us leaving the venue to go to the private club.
Until next time.
Your man,
-Elijah “The Realist”
