As men in a culture of technology and rapid information available at a click of a button, it’s easy to get overwhelmed with the vast amount of information available to us.
How to workout?
Google it.
How to eat healthy?
Google it.
How to actually have better sex?
Google it.
How to build a dog house for Fido?
Google it.
How to make MORE money?
Google it.
How to invest money?
Google it.
How to fold a pocket square?
Google it. (or just simply read this blog)
Literally every question a man has, can be answered to a certain degree, by using an internet search engine.
Into books?
There’s literally thousands upon thousands of books available at a click of a button and you can even read them on your smart phone.
So with all of this vast information available to us men about how to become successful, what is holding us ALL back from becoming the best man that we were meant to actually be?
It’s NOT the lack of wisdom, tools and information on how to better ourselves.
It’s the lack of applying ourselves.
You Got To Have The Want To
Period.
There is NO excuse for NOT getting into the best shape of your life, making the most money that you can, and bedding the most beautiful women in the world, besides a lack of will and effort.
Effort = Results.
I had an email from a fan the other day asking if there was a shortcut to becoming much Better at Game.
There is not.
There simply is no MAGIC formula.
There is however, tools that can help you learn the secrets that men with more experience with women utilize, which will save you time, energy and effort, but at the end of the day, you STILL must actually APPLY them.
You must STILL go out and approach girls.
You must STILL put yourself out there to get rejected, in order for you to eventually get accepted.
You Got To Have The Want To.
I simply CAN’T do it for you.
Your parents can’t do it for you.
Your girlfriend or wife can’t do it for you.
Your best friend can’t do it for you.
You and only YOU; can actually control your destiny… and YOU have to put in the effort to become great.
“Never underestimate the power of dreams and the influence of the human spirit. We are all the same in this notion: The potential for greatness lives within each of us.” –Wilma Rudolph
If it was EASY to be great, then literally EVERYONE would be great, but how MANY truly great men do YOU actually know?
How many truly great men stand out in history, over the millions of men who took the average route and died in complete obscurity?
Greatness is achieved through sacrifice, effort, energy and a sole focus at becoming the #1 absolute best at something.
Get obsessed with becoming great.
Because NO ONE ELSE will actually do it for you.
Until next time.
Your man,
-Elijah “The Realist”
