If there’s one thing I’ve learned in almost three decades of my life, it’s that turning into a beta bitch boy in your current relationship or with your ex…
Will NEVER increase her attraction for you and will NEVER help you win back your ex.
I’m going to break this down like a motherfucker right now, you ready?
1. Forget EVERYTHING that you ever saw in a romantic comedy that supposedly works on girls.
Toss it out of the halls of your mind.
It simply does NOT work.
2. Pleading and begging are two things that you should NEVER do with a girl. Ever.
3. The moment you feel like you have to go to an extreme in order to ‘save’ the relationship, you’ve already ‘lost’ her.
It’s just a matter of time before it’s completely 100% over.
4. Most of what your elders taught you about getting a girl to like you is 100% complete utter bullshit.
It may have worked for their generation, but it doesn’t work in the 21st century in the good ole USA and most countries with a western culture influence.
Bringing flowers on a first date will get you labeled as flat out desperate and ‘creepy’.
I didn’t invent the Game, I have just simply perfected it.
It is what it is.
5. The moment you feel you need to hurry up and prove yourself to a girl, is the EXACT moment that she now has control of the relationship.
6. Game is about effectively creating a dynamic where it appears like she’s chasing you, when you’re actually the one who is pursuing her.
Next Level Game is when she actually is chasing you, WITHOUT you ‘doing’ literally ANYTHING.
(You actually are, but it’s more nuanced and it’s based on your obvious High Value)
7. SPOILER ALERT: On a very popular episode of Mad Men, the writers have made the great Don Draper drop his classic alpha male characteristics and do the following to win his wife’s affections back:
1. Buy her flowers.
2. Surprise her in LA with his presence (he lives in NYC).
3. Tell her “I love you”. He rarely does.
4. Try to please her with news that he’s getting another job.
5. Call her “just to hear her voice”.
Can you guess what happens?
She becomes cold and withdrawn and immediately wants to breakup.
“But wait Elijah! He did EVERYTHING that you’re supposed to do with a girl, right?”
Actually he did, BEFORE he slipped into Beta mode.
No matter how alpha you are, it only takes a few mistakes to slip into a pussy whipped beta bitch boy.
8. A woman will lose respect for you the instant you start needlessly apologizing for being a man.
Don’t be a part of this Apology Generation!
Be a damn man and ALWAYS hold your head high.
Don’t walk around apologizing for liking pretty women, women who are feminine and women who like to be submissive and please men.
9. Think about when someone really needs a favor from you, what dynamic does this produce?
One where YOU have the actual power, right?
Now think about when a man begs a women to stay with him or get back together with him, what dynamic does THIS produce?
The EXACT same: she NOW has literally ALL of the power.
10. Want to know a little secret about women that will help almost instantly transform your Game?
Women are best handled with the carrot and the stick.
Never give them EVERYTHING that they WANT, either materially OR emotionally.
They WANT what they CANNOT have, but they get pleasure in the drama of wanting, wishing and imagining.
11. Learn that less is REALLY actually more… when it comes to gaming women.
12. Women will NEVER respect a weak kneed, yellow belly wimp, so drop the pleading and begging and have some god damn respect for yourself.
Look, here’s the deal: if she wants to go, or break-up with you, then simply let it be.
You don’t want to struggle with a woman to stay with you and force her to be with you.
Don’t get caught up thinking you can ‘change her mind’, because that’s simply NOT how it works.
Women DON’T respond to logic, they only respond to emotions.
Learn EXACTLY how to trigger the right emotions, and she’ll be JUST LIKE putty in your hands.
13. Nothing is better than a women who WANTS to be with you and will go to hell and back in order to actually stay with you.
14. The easiest way to Hold Frame and wear the pants in the relationship is this: ALWAYS hold yourself as the prize.
Know your value and present it that way.
It’s her good fortune that YOU chose her to actually date.
She’s ‘lucky’ that YOU gave HER the actual time of day.
Never approach it from “I’m so lucky to be with this girl. I don’t deserve her at all!”.
That statement is thrown around constantly by pussy beta bitch boys and instantly tells me who wears the pants in that family.
15. You may ‘lose’ a girl by NOT pleading and begging, but you will ALWAYS ‘lose’ a girl by pleading and begging.
Get it?
Until next time.
Your man,
-Elijah “The Realist”
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