Every time you step foot into a club, you’re faced with a choice on whether to stay or not.
That decision can make or break your chance to get laid.
Is there a way to consistently make the right choice?
I believe there is.
Simply count the Approachable Girls (AG) in the venue.
If it’s greater than one, you’re in a good spot.
Let me define an Approachable Girl, so you can see why having only one or two in a venue is a lot harder than it sounds.
An Approachable Girl is a girl who:
- is not with any guys
- is bangable (in your book)
- is not sitting down at a table
- is not dancing
- is not plugged into her phone
- is not with more than two people
The above criteria is what I’ve observed as key to being able to do high-impact approaches with basic game ability and a low rejection rate.
You’re also less likely to get cockblocked.
Of course you can approach girls who are dancing or who are in mixed-set groups, but those take much extra labor and have a high chance of failure.
The Approachable Girl score aims for success without stress.
For that you’ll need a score of at least 1 in order to justify staying in any venue.
Believe it or not, some huge clubs can have Approachable Girl scores that are 0.
The venue may have a lot of girls, but they are not in a desirably approachable state.
Here’s a run down of Approachable Girl scores and what they mean:
AG = 1. Typical for a weeknight club scene. Stay for only a drink.
AG = 2. Average club. Worth staying for a bit.
AG = 3. Solid prospects. Might have good conversations.
AG > 3. You must be in Ukraine, Croatia, or Poland. Look around, maybe you’ll see me.
Bottom line is the higher the Approachable Girl score, the more likely you’ll get some type of close.
If you’re faced with three venues on a Saturday, count the Approachable Girls in each and then return to the one with the highest.
It’s that simple.
My mind came up with the Approachable Girl score because the male to female ratio was no longer a reliable indicator of how I did.
In some places I pulled better when there was a bad ratio than a good one that should’ve been easier.
I found that what matters more is not the number of females present or the ratio, but whether they are approachable.
Once I see at least two of these approachable sets, I know I’m in an acceptable place, regardless of what else is going on.
I prepare and get ready to put in some work.
Until next time.
Your man,
-Elijah “The Realist”
